Being not sensitive causes wounds and painfulness to the people around you. You tend to hurt your friends, or your family or even someone you don't know through your actions and words. Inevitably, we sometimes commit mistakes because of our carelessness and tactlessness. What shall you do during these situations?
The people who molded you taught you to say sorry or ask for forgiveness. That is correct... but not at all times! There are times that asking for forgiveness and saying sorry and trying to explain your side can only complicate the situation.The person you cause wound could become more emotional and hysterical. Because he is in an emotional state, he might not understand the words that are coming out of your mouth.
So, the best thing to do is to just shut up! Make things up to him without apologizing and explaining your side. Do it with your actions by making good deeds to him or trying to be friend him again without mentioning the hurt you caused him. Most importantly, you should learn from your mistakes and change your negative attitudes so that next time, you will not commit mistakes again. Remember that healing a wound will take time. Remember...... "time will heal".
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